I'm worried my dogs will be terrified by French neighbour's fireworks
Columnist Cynthia Spillman recommends some strategies to manage the situation
In the event of loud noises, a safe haven can be created – a quiet place with favourite toys and blankets
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Dear Cynth,
We recently moved to a small village in the Camargue. Our neighbours have invited us to a firework party but we have two elderly dogs who are absolutely petrified of loud bangs.
We do not want to leave them alone, nor do we want to offend our neighbours. How can we extricate ourselves from this potentially upsetting situation?
My heart goes out to you, as the owner of two dogs myself. Mine also hate fireworks.
It is a tough situation, especially in a small village where everybody knows everyone else.
As newcomers I understand your dilemma.
I suggest that, first of all, you explain the problem to your neighbours in as diplomatic a way as possible.
Tell them that you cannot leave your elderly dogs because of this, and indeed that you will have to employ some strategies to try to manage the situation.
Tell them how badly affected your dogs are and, if you are brave enough, suggest that they use low-noise fireworks at their party.
If they are animal lovers, they should be sympathetic. Stay calm while you are chatting to them.
It is unrealistic to expect them to cancel the party, of course. Hopefully, however, they will have enough sensitivity not to prolong the fireworks, in the name of good neighbourly relations.
Short of going out for the evening, you could create a safe haven for your dogs – a quiet place with their favourite toys and blankets.
We sometimes put music on if there are fireworks going off. Try the Dogs Trust’s ‘Soft Sounds for Dogs’ playlist.
You could also use white noise or other calming tracks. Or mask the fireworks with the sound of a fan.
There are various anxiety wraps, vests and pheromone diffusers available online, which can also help to soothe your dogs.
Try to stay calm yourself as dogs pick up on your energy. You could distract your dogs with treats and by playing with them.
I hope, for your sake, that this is a one-off event. However, if gentle diplomacy does not work and you find that your neighbours are repeatedly setting off fireworks, you could team up with other local pet owners and form a united front, requesting that your neighbours behave in a more considerate manner.
Finally, you have rights. In France, local communes may have noise regulations. Speak to your mairie if fireworks are frequent or excessive.
